Bettye Victoria (Ponder) Weems has been the “Angel” of the Ponder-Stokes Family for all of my 64 years and more. An empath with an enormous ability to care for others especially her siblings. Bettye has consistently made time to be at the side of  ailing family and always ready to help when needed. It is a great comfort to the family knowing that she is here.

That is why I was so touched, not surprised but very touched when she told me that she was with Jimmie the day before his death. I can tell from her voice that she was still mourning the loss of her little brother. She said that Jimmie told her that he was in the hospital because his chest was hurting. The doctors, after examining him told him that he had already had a heart attack. The doctors wanted Jimmie to stay in the hospital but he felt he would be more comfortable at home.

As Bettye and Jimmie completed their visit he acknowledged to her that this may be their last time visiting. He was prepared for that eventuality; I felt better knowing that he was woke and controlling his destiny. Jimmy died in his sleep over night. We will love and miss him always.

I thank our ancestors for producing such an angel as Bettye. I want to lift her up to the family. I’m so glad that she was there to usher our brother Jimmie on his journey home. Ase’